Welcome to Springs in the Desert

Infertility is a burden most couples don’t expect to carry. It can affect your marriage, your relationship with family and friends, and your relationship with God. Infertility often feels like a long and lonely path. But you are not alone! As a Catholic infertility ministry, Springs in the Desert is more than just a ministry; we are a place of respite, solidarity, and encouragement – wherever you are on the path of infertility, or in the experience of pregnancy loss. We’ve created a community here, and it’s built on faith in Christ and His good plan of fruitfulness for each one of us.

We’re so glad that you found us, and we hope that you will find encouragement from our blog posts, podcast episodes, resources, and virtual and in-person events. If you need to talk or have a prayer request, let us know. You’re not alone anymore. It is our honor to walk with you!

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Reflections for walking the path of infertility with people who understand. While all of our experiences are different, our faith in Christ is what unites us.

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Join our team and guests for conversations as we dig into various aspects of infertility. Our podcast is that friend you can take with you, no matter where you are!

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Springs in the Desert is a Catholic infertility ministry that accompanies many women and couples struggling with infertility and loss by offering a place of respite and solidarity

As a Catholic infertility ministry, Springs in the Desert accompanies many women and couples struggling with infertility and loss by offering a place of respite and solidarity, where they come to know God’s love for them and discover that He is transforming their suffering into fruitfulness. Our team members are honored to walk with these couples, but without the contributions of our community members and volunteers, our work would not be possible!

If you have a heart for ministry and have been blessed through Springs in the Desert, we invite you to prayerfully consider getting involved! The needs of our ministry are evolving, so we invite you to contact us if you have specific skills and talents you would like to contribute.

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Testimonials

I wholeheartedly support the works of Springs in the Desert, and invite couples carrying the heavy burdens of infertility to feel welcome in coming to this apostolate for a deepening of faith and community, as we embrace the healing power of Jesus’ Most Holy Name.

Bishop Alfred A. Schlert, Diocese of Allentown

Springs in the Desert provides sound spiritual, and emotional guidance rooted in the riches of our Catholic faith. This beautiful apostolate exists to serve the sanctity and fruitfulness of marriage as expressed in the gift of self of the spouses. Thus, Springs in the Desert empowers couples to recover the meaning and dignity of the sacrament of Holy Matrimony as witness to faith and fidelity in the midst of great suffering.

Bishop Ronald W. Gainer, Diocese of Harrisburg

I recommend Springs in the Desert and its much-needed mission of providing concrete spiritual and emotional support to individuals and couples who struggle with infertility. I pray that [they] will continue to encourage those who struggle with infertility to unite their suffering with the suffering of Christ. May our lady intercede for all who participate in this apostolate, that they might experience the spiritual fruitfulness which never fails to flow from the cross of her Son!

Bishop Kevin C. Rhoades, Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend

The presentations from the Springs team were beautifully prepared and remarkable for their sensitivity, their deep understanding, and their honest clarity.  They showed in a very practical way how the teachings of the Church are not in conflict with our complex human experience, but call us to a deeper understanding of who we are as beloved daughters and sons of God.

Chris O'Neill, Director, Office of Marriage and Family Life, Archdiocese of New Orleans

The team at Springs in the Desert was wonderful to work with in planning and putting on our Mother’s Day weekend retreat for those struggling with infertility. Their passion for ministering to women and couples who carry this cross was beautiful to behold…. I highly recommend partnering with Springs in the Desert.

Lisa Everett, Director for Marriage & Family Ministry, Diocese of Fort Wayne-South Bend

Having touched loneliness myself, I recognized immediately the gift of Springs in the Desert. This apostolate stands out as a prophetic voice in the wilderness of barrenness, where one’s feelings of abnormality and inadequacy also stand to drive them further into isolation or despair.

Deacon Gregory Amarante, Secretary, Secretariat for Catholic Life and Evangelization, Diocese of Harrisburg

I am so grateful to have Springs in the Desert as a resource. As someone who carries the cross of infertility and is a mother of three through adoption, I have talked to many couples over the past twenty years that also carry the cross of infertility. After all these years in ministry, it’s a wonderful gift to finally have a place to send people that need support that is rooted in Catholic teaching and the love of Jesus Christ. Thank you for your ministry!

Maria Malone, Director of Adult Faith Formation at Mary, Mother of the Redeemer Catholic Church, North Wales, PA

You are the only organization looking to unmask who God has actually called us to be through our infertility and not seeing it as a “fixable problem”, but actually identifying the nature of the call. You help bring us together to see it, and encourage the fostering of bringing forth the fruits from this form of suffering and grief. In this way, we can recognize our importance to God and our place within the body of Christ as a whole.

Karen
Thank you so much for everything that you do to bring awareness to the cross of infertility and to support those of us bearing this cross. It has been at times a very isolating experience for me within my own family and within my local Catholic community, and it means so much to know that there are other Catholic women (and men) striving to live a life of holiness while carrying this cross.
Elizabeth

I pray that more women dealing with the struggle of infertility will attend this retreat. I’ve found in my journey that infertility struggles are more prevalent than I thought. The more I open up about it, the more others do too. I’ve felt that talking about it helps. This retreat has brought an important aspect of God and His love and blessings for me into my heart and reflection. Thank you for helping me see that.

Nicole

This retreat was everything I didn’t know I needed and all I hoped for. Thank you all so much for the hard work, both emotional and spiritual that you all have put into this amazing retreat. Thank you for putting a new and different hope in my heart.

Lydia

It was such a profound experience to be with other infertility warriors in the flesh. We have never had that opportunity before and it was so powerful just to be in each other’s presence. Thank you for the way you made non-Catholic brothers and sisters feel welcome. Very intentional, sensitive, and well-thought out.

Sarah

This [event] was absolutely a “Spring in the Desert.” Thank you for being obedient to God and ministering to us when there is seemingly no other ministry for infertility. 

Colby

I thought this [event] was incredible! I only hope your reach continues to grow bigger and bigger so we can meet more couples like us.

Kendall

I loved this retreat! It was nice to be together with my husband. Much of our infertility journey has been separate. I have a girls group I go to, but having something like this has been amazing.

Ellen

Thank you. I just lost my first pregnancy 2 weeks ago and this retreat gave me a lot of peace and hope for my future – no matter what that looks like.

Kate

Thank you for being all-inclusive to all types of infertility. At first, I was worried about feeling judged, but that was not the case at all and felt great to be with so many others going through the same journey.

MK
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  • Do you need some encouragement in your prayer life?

Today on the podcast, we welcome Fr. Paul West to teach and encourage us how to pray—especially when we don’t feel like it or are in a season of dryness. He gives advice on the best time to pray, where we should pray, and especially how we can pray. After listening to this podcast, you’ll feel motivated and inspired to put your phone and other distractions away and just show up to listen and talk to God because He has much to tell us! 🙏

You can find The Springs in the Desert Podcast wherever you like to listen: https://springsinthedesert.org/podcast/ (link in bio)

#SpringsintheDesert #Catholic #Catholicprayer #prayer #Christianprayer #prayerlife #prayerworks #prayerwarrior #praytherosaryeveryday #praytherosary #Catholiclife
  • Sunday journal prompt ✨

As we celebrate the Sacred Heart of Jesus during the month of June, consider also the Heart of the Father. How would you describe your relationship with Him? How is the Father caring for you at this very moment?

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #SacredHeart #SacredHeartofJesus #SacredHeartMonth
  • As Catholics walking with infertility, we understand and value the dignity of human life and what it means to be open to it—but that doesn't mean that being open to life is always an easy thing to do!

Today we are welcoming Bernadette to the blog with a reflection on what she has learned from her at-times painful experience of being open to life. She writes,

"This painful openness is not devoid of supernatural value. Perhaps this very suffering will bear richer life than I could ever have realized through natural means. Perhaps in some small way my persistent longing as a woman unable to actualize her biological maternity can offer reparation for a society which glorifies the right to circumvent motherhood. Perhaps the posture of my soul broken open to life has no less meaning because my arms remain empty, my openness and longing so often invisible."

Read more on the blog: https://springsinthedesert.org/broken-open-to-life (link in bio)

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #infertility #infertilityawareness #infertilitycommunity #primaryinfertility #infertilityandfaith #infertilityblog #infertilityblogger #Catholicwomen #fruitfulness #calledtogivelife #opentolife #prolife #prolifegeneration #prolifewomen
  • Are you finding fruitfulness through your work?

Our special guest this week is Victoria Cerise of @mysticalrosephotography. She is a Catholic wedding photographer who travels all over the United States capturing photos for weddings and other special occasions. Jillian and Ann chat with her about her work and the many opportunities for fruitfulness she finds in it.

Victoria also invites us to remember that, even for those in a season of infertility, there is so much in life to celebrate! She shares some great ideas for documenting our marriages, times with family and friends, and capturing special memories with a photo session.

You can find The Springs in the Desert Podcast wherever you like to listen: https://springsinthedesert.org/podcast/ (link in bio)

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@alookthroughmyeyes #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #infertility #catholicweddingphotography #Catholic #Catholicwedding #Catholicwife #Catholicmarriage #fruitfulness
  • Announcing: CHERISHED ✨

Infertility is a heavy burden that not everyone understands. It can leave those struggling feeling isolated and wrestling with a lot of conflicting emotions. If this is your burden, you don’t have to carry it alone!

The Archdiocese of New Orleans and Springs in the Desert are partnering to offer Cherished: A Retreat for Those in a Season of Infertility on July 7–8, 2023 at the St. Joseph Abbey Retreat Center (St. Benedict, LA). Wherever you are on the path of infertility, we invite you to join the Springs in the Desert team as they reflect on the emotional, relational and spiritual aspects of the infertility experience, and offer practical suggestions for strengthening your relationship with God and your spouse.

Come with your spouse or on your own for a time of prayer, healing, and friendship with others on this same path. Register now (spaces are limited!): https://springsinthedesert.org/nola (link in bio)

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicsofInstagram #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWomen #CatholicWives #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #CatholicFamily #NOLACatholic @archdioceseofno  @nolacatholicyoungadults
  • Sunday journal prompt ✨

"If therefore the son shall make you free, you shall be free indeed" …reads John 8:36 (DRA). Today is Venerable Pierre Toussaint (1766–1853), who was born into slavery in Haiti before becoming a free man and talented hairdresser in New York City, where he was well-known for his generosity and charity. He and his wife Juliette had no biological children but adopted a niece and took care of many orphans and the poor.

How are you "free" to care for others, even if you have faced significant difficulties in life? How have you been using your freedom lately? How can you be an instrument of God's love, no matter what your circumstances?

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #PierreToussaint
Do you need some encouragement in your prayer life? Today on the podcast, we welcome Fr. Paul West to teach and encourage us how to pray—especially when we don’t feel like it or are in a season of dryness. He gives advice on the best time to pray, where we should pray, and especially how we can pray. After listening to this podcast, you’ll feel motivated and inspired to put your phone and other distractions away and just show up to listen and talk to God because He has much to tell us! 🙏 You can find The Springs in the Desert Podcast wherever you like to listen: https://springsinthedesert.org/podcast/ (link in bio) #SpringsintheDesert #Catholic #Catholicprayer #prayer #Christianprayer #prayerlife #prayerworks #prayerwarrior #praytherosaryeveryday #praytherosary #Catholiclife
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Sunday journal prompt ✨

As we celebrate the Sacred Heart of Jesus during the month of June, consider also the Heart of the Father. How would you describe your relationship with Him? How is the Father caring for you at this very moment?

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #SacredHeart #SacredHeartofJesus #SacredHeartMonth
Sunday journal prompt ✨ As we celebrate the Sacred Heart of Jesus during the month of June, consider also the Heart of the Father. How would you describe your relationship with Him? How is the Father caring for you at this very moment? . . . #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #SacredHeart #SacredHeartofJesus #SacredHeartMonth
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As Catholics walking with infertility, we understand and value the dignity of human life and what it means to be open to it—but that doesn't mean that being open to life is always an easy thing to do!

Today we are welcoming Bernadette to the blog with a reflection on what she has learned from her at-times painful experience of being open to life. She writes,

"This painful openness is not devoid of supernatural value. Perhaps this very suffering will bear richer life than I could ever have realized through natural means. Perhaps in some small way my persistent longing as a woman unable to actualize her biological maternity can offer reparation for a society which glorifies the right to circumvent motherhood. Perhaps the posture of my soul broken open to life has no less meaning because my arms remain empty, my openness and longing so often invisible."

Read more on the blog: https://springsinthedesert.org/broken-open-to-life (link in bio)

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #infertility #infertilityawareness #infertilitycommunity #primaryinfertility #infertilityandfaith #infertilityblog #infertilityblogger #Catholicwomen #fruitfulness #calledtogivelife #opentolife #prolife #prolifegeneration #prolifewomen
As Catholics walking with infertility, we understand and value the dignity of human life and what it means to be open to it—but that doesn't mean that being open to life is always an easy thing to do! Today we are welcoming Bernadette to the blog with a reflection on what she has learned from her at-times painful experience of being open to life. She writes, "This painful openness is not devoid of supernatural value. Perhaps this very suffering will bear richer life than I could ever have realized through natural means. Perhaps in some small way my persistent longing as a woman unable to actualize her biological maternity can offer reparation for a society which glorifies the right to circumvent motherhood. Perhaps the posture of my soul broken open to life has no less meaning because my arms remain empty, my openness and longing so often invisible." Read more on the blog: https://springsinthedesert.org/broken-open-to-life (link in bio) . . . #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #infertility #infertilityawareness #infertilitycommunity #primaryinfertility #infertilityandfaith #infertilityblog #infertilityblogger #Catholicwomen #fruitfulness #calledtogivelife #opentolife #prolife #prolifegeneration #prolifewomen
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Are you finding fruitfulness through your work? Our special guest this week is Victoria Cerise of @mysticalrosephotography. She is a Catholic wedding photographer who travels all over the United States capturing photos for weddings and other special occasions. Jillian and Ann chat with her about her work and the many opportunities for fruitfulness she finds in it. Victoria also invites us to remember that, even for those in a season of infertility, there is so much in life to celebrate! She shares some great ideas for documenting our marriages, times with family and friends, and capturing special memories with a photo session. You can find The Springs in the Desert Podcast wherever you like to listen: https://springsinthedesert.org/podcast/ (link in bio) . . . @alookthroughmyeyes #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #infertility #catholicweddingphotography #Catholic #Catholicwedding #Catholicwife #Catholicmarriage #fruitfulness
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Announcing: CHERISHED ✨

Infertility is a heavy burden that not everyone understands. It can leave those struggling feeling isolated and wrestling with a lot of conflicting emotions. If this is your burden, you don’t have to carry it alone!

The Archdiocese of New Orleans and Springs in the Desert are partnering to offer Cherished: A Retreat for Those in a Season of Infertility on July 7–8, 2023 at the St. Joseph Abbey Retreat Center (St. Benedict, LA). Wherever you are on the path of infertility, we invite you to join the Springs in the Desert team as they reflect on the emotional, relational and spiritual aspects of the infertility experience, and offer practical suggestions for strengthening your relationship with God and your spouse.

Come with your spouse or on your own for a time of prayer, healing, and friendship with others on this same path. Register now (spaces are limited!): https://springsinthedesert.org/nola (link in bio)

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicsofInstagram #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWomen #CatholicWives #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #CatholicFamily #NOLACatholic @archdioceseofno  @nolacatholicyoungadults
Announcing: CHERISHED ✨ Infertility is a heavy burden that not everyone understands. It can leave those struggling feeling isolated and wrestling with a lot of conflicting emotions. If this is your burden, you don’t have to carry it alone! The Archdiocese of New Orleans and Springs in the Desert are partnering to offer Cherished: A Retreat for Those in a Season of Infertility on July 7–8, 2023 at the St. Joseph Abbey Retreat Center (St. Benedict, LA). Wherever you are on the path of infertility, we invite you to join the Springs in the Desert team as they reflect on the emotional, relational and spiritual aspects of the infertility experience, and offer practical suggestions for strengthening your relationship with God and your spouse. Come with your spouse or on your own for a time of prayer, healing, and friendship with others on this same path. Register now (spaces are limited!): https://springsinthedesert.org/nola (link in bio) . . . #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicsofInstagram #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWomen #CatholicWives #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #CatholicFamily #NOLACatholic @archdioceseofno @nolacatholicyoungadults
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Sunday journal prompt ✨

"If therefore the son shall make you free, you shall be free indeed" …reads John 8:36 (DRA). Today is Venerable Pierre Toussaint (1766–1853), who was born into slavery in Haiti before becoming a free man and talented hairdresser in New York City, where he was well-known for his generosity and charity. He and his wife Juliette had no biological children but adopted a niece and took care of many orphans and the poor.

How are you "free" to care for others, even if you have faced significant difficulties in life? How have you been using your freedom lately? How can you be an instrument of God's love, no matter what your circumstances?

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#SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #PierreToussaint
Sunday journal prompt ✨ "If therefore the son shall make you free, you shall be free indeed" …reads John 8:36 (DRA). Today is Venerable Pierre Toussaint (1766–1853), who was born into slavery in Haiti before becoming a free man and talented hairdresser in New York City, where he was well-known for his generosity and charity. He and his wife Juliette had no biological children but adopted a niece and took care of many orphans and the poor. How are you "free" to care for others, even if you have faced significant difficulties in life? How have you been using your freedom lately? How can you be an instrument of God's love, no matter what your circumstances? . . . #SpringsintheDesert #CatholicInfertility #CatholicInfertilitySupport #CatholicInfertilityCommunity #infertilityandfaith #CatholicWivesTTC #CatholicTTC #ChristianInfertility #ChristianInfertilitySupport #ChristianInfertilityCommunity #infertilitysupport #infertilitycommunity #infertilityjourney #journalprompt #journalprompts #journalpromptsunday #journalling #journalcommunity #journallove #PierreToussaint
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